Catch Up


Hey, Cynthia here, how are you doing? It's been a while. So I wanted to check in and just talk about some of the things that have been going on some of the observations that I've had, and can continue to share some tidbits and insights, in helping everyone to learn to move out of these spaces that we've created that we think are protective. But what they really do is they box us in. And so I wanted to share with you kind of a little bit, you know, from the first perspective of, you know, what's been going on, for me, it was, you know, going into the past weekend, it was really, really interesting that I noticed that my mood had switched, you know, continuing to be we're on the last day of fall national lockdown rules. Here in the UK. The first step in opening things up, happens tomorrow. Now, I don't have any people in my bubble. So it doesn't really change my life, to be quite honest, other than, you know, if folks wanted to start getting together, that would create the opportunity that didn't previously exist, in terms of meeting up outside going for coffee, etc. So, the whole idea is that when you go into those spaces, and you start to realize where you're at, like, what your mental position, what your emotional state is, you know, that means, that comes with practice, and that comes with really doing the deep work on yourself. And I can't stress enough that, you know, much like the first step of acceptance, you know, is the preparation for acceptance. And, like, all of the steps, you know, the step where you work on acceptance of yourself, or you work on acceptance with your, your, quote, what I call it, kind of your local community, your friends, your family, your immediate co-workers, things like that. And then you go to, you know, a larger group, once you have that kind of built to a point where you can then more comfortably move to, you know, more than societal level, and you don't have to be LGBT or anything else. It's just simply where you feel you aren't fit